How much can you understand a country by just listening to someone who calls it home?
When I began tutoring a girl who was displaced by the Russia-Ukraine war, I thought I would simply be helping her improve her English. Instead, I found myself learning about her new life in Germany. After moving from Ukraine, she adjusted to a completely different environment, and she loved sharing the similarities and differences she noticed.
One of the biggest differences she described was school. In Germany, the school day usually starts at 8 a.m., but ends at around 11 a.m. or 12 p.m. Because students finish earlier, they don’t receive as much homework and have far more free time. That extra time allows them to relax, explore hobbies, or spend time with friends. Students also have many days off throughout the year, which families often use to travel. She enjoyed visiting cities like Bückeburg and Düsseldorf, where she noticed the striking architecture.
Another difference that stood out to me was the independence students have. Many children take trains and buses on their own, navigating the public transportation system confidently. She described being able to meet friends or explore nearby areas without relying on adults for rides, and freely taking trains. This level of freedom shows responsibility at a young age.
Education itself is also structured differently, with a different curriculum. English classes are mandatory in German schools, and students begin learning the language early. In English, they not only learn the language itself, but also learn about cities like New York City and Los Angeles, and learn about American customs like the homecoming football game. The grading system is different from ours as well, using a numerical scale that may seem reversed compared to what we’re used to in the United States. Adjusting to this system was also a large change from her life in Ukraine.
Food was another way she connected to her new home. She talked about the importance of fresh bread, local bakeries, and traditional dishes that bring families together. She also enjoyed coffee at her local bakeries, and her favorite drink turned out to be matcha! Even small daily routines, like stopping by a bakery in the morning, became part of her experience.
Listening to her stories made me realize that Germany, for many, represents far more than just a travel destination! It represents stability, opportunity, and a sense of freedom. Even after experiencing displacement and uncertainty, she speaks about her new life with gratitude and curiosity! Most of all, listening to her made me realize that understanding a place isn’t just about seeing its landmarks: it’s about hearing the stories of people building their lives there.
